FREEDOM to say “I DO”!!!!

Today plays a very important part in the history of the State of Maryland.  Today, the General Assembly is listening to the proposed amendments to Bill 241 – the Civil Marriage Protection Act and if all the Readers have been read/voted out or in…a vote will come tonight.

This vote will change my life and the lives of other Marylanders forever.  It will give me the possibility and others who would like to be married to a same-sex partner the ability to do so.  If this Act is passed – Governor Martin O’Malley has promised to sign it into being, thereby approving my ability as a human being the right to marry whomever I wish. (so long as they be non-relative, above the age of a minor, are indeed a human being and a legal citizen of this country, etc. etc. etc.)

The proposed amendments that have been read thus far since 10am this morning have been humorous, audacious and a complete waste of tax paying citizen’s time and money.  I have heard mention of:

  • Baptism – wants the right for churches to turn away children of same-sex marriages for Baptism! (really???)
  • School curriculum (a mathematical word problem was referenced for a 2nd grader level that mentioned a mom and dad…the “fear” was that said school/publishing house would be sued for this as it was now non-inclusive.)
  • School curriculum was also referenced to some book that schools would now be required to have??? Good heavens!
  • Mother’s and Father’s day – it was a fear that these would be abolished in the state of Maryland and Family day used instead.  Just for the record – neither are Federal or State holidays but inventions of Hallmark. – Don’t worry mom, I still love you. ❤

Senator Simonaire specifically was going a bit off the charts with some of his proposed objections and amendments.

@EqualityMDon Twitter lovingly called him “Sen. Crazy” and I think I shall adopt this title for all politicians that seems be be off their rockers lately.

Argentina, Belgium, Canada, Iceland, Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, South Africa, Spain and Sweden – these countries have all approved Same Sex Marriage for their citizens! We the home of the Free are not as free as we would like to be, or as free as we advertise.

Senator Raskin is my new hero today. Yes Senator – I’ve been listening to your calm, patient answers amidst the crazy talk and I applaud you and say Thank you!

To the sponsors of this bill (by the way, my county’s [District 34 – Nancy Jacobs (R) ] senator was NOT one of them and so come election time – out she goes babe…bye bye) I want to personally thank you for putting your name to the page and then standing up for it today with your voice AND more importantly – your vote.

To The President of the MD Senate Thomas Miller (By Request – Administration) and Senators Ferguson, Forehand, Frosh, Garagiola, Gladden, Jones-Rodwell, Kelley, King, Kittleman, Madaleno, Manno, McFadden, Montgomery, Pinsky, Pugh, Ramirez, Raskin, Robey, Young, and Zirkin – THANK YOU!

Give my family the right to be.

Give me the right to love whomever I want and honor that commitment, that human bond that no one can should ever be allowed to vote against.

Vote for the passing of the Civil Marriage Protection Act and let our good state of Maryland sign it into being for October, 2012.


Do you? …someday

We’re just a bunch of crazy girls who wanna get hitched. But seeing as how the government, the church, and even some deeply concerned (or insane) citizens of this fine nation have not yet given the state of Maryland the opportunity for equality in the form of Marriage…then Soul and I are having to do some creative planning.

Not to mention that I absolutely love this woman and she me, and we want to be married — like — yesterday. Like two months ago. Like — well you get the gist.

Please note that all of this will happen…eventually. We just haven’t the foggiest idea as to when.

We do however know where. How it will look. What the reception will resemble. Etc.!!! *girly squeal!*

So for this page I will share with you:

  • The items and themes of interest
  • The latest and greatest of websites for referencing
  • All of our DIY wedding projects
  • And the big stuff like: The Dress/es, the Rings, etc.

We plan to have this as a tasteful, small wedding some year in the month of September.

And so here is what we have thus far:

Date:  September XX, 20XX


Ceremony:  The Covered Bridge in Maryland

Reception:  The Barn near the Covered Bridge in Maryland

Theme:  Vintage Whimsy!

Colors:  Soul:  (undecided still)  Jen:  Peacock blue

Dress: Found this FABULOUS dress but it costs over 1500.00, so I may have a friend recreate it for both of us! (fingers crossed)

Dress style:  vintage sheath dress with a short kick train. Will NOT show the picture as …you’re not supposed to see the bride beforehand! Geez!

Rings:  Silver/Gold/Red Gold bands – handmade by Uzi in Israel (found on Etsy)

Bouquet:  Brooch Bouquets – DIY by Jen

Limo/Car: VW Camper Van

I’ll definitely be adding more posts to this page so …keep watch!